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from Jesus:
As I explain elsewhere,
marriage is a sacred vow that people make before God, and therefore
it should be taken seriously. When you marry someone, you vow to be
faithful to that person and to that person only—or at least that
is what your vow should mean. If you have sex outside of marriage, you
are obviously breaking that vow and therefore you are making karma in
the process.
As explained in my other answer, most people do not have a clear understanding
of the spiritual aspects of life. This includes an understanding of
what actually happens on an energy level when you have sexual intercourse.
As I explain throughout this website, everything you do is done with
energy, so every aspect of life needs to be understood in terms of an
exchange of energy. Everyone knows that when you have sex, there is
a potential for transmitting certain diseases. However, there is an
even greater potential for transmitting certain energies.
When people have sex, the energy fields of the two people become very
tightly intermeshed. During an orgasm, light is released from the energy
centers in your energy field, especially from the lower energy center,
which is often called the base chakra. This feels pleasurable because
the chakras are designed to transmit energy. The sense of pleasure often
dulls the intuitive faculties, and this prevents people from realizing
that the meshing of energy fields opens them to receiving energy from
their partners or even from outside sources. The sense of pleasure can
make you blind to the potential dangers or make you unwilling to acknowledge
such dangers.
Everyone knows that if you have sex with only one partner, you are not
as likely to get a sexually transmitted disease as when you have sex
with multiple partners. This is parallel to what happens on an energy
level. If you have sex with more than one partner, the risk of receiving
impure energy increases. Obviously, if two people are faithful to each
other, the risk of sexually transmitted disease is minimal, and the
same is true for impure energies. In a faithful marriage, it is possible
for the partners to build a wall of protective energy around themselves.
This makes it possible for a married couple to have sex without being
vulnerable to impure energies from outside sources.
However, if you break that vow, you are likely to bring impure energies
into the marriage, and this will break down the protection of your marriage.
It can also transfer such energies to your spouse. If your spouse believes
you are faithful, he or she will not be on guard and will therefore
subconsciously be open to receiving such energies. This will violate
your spouse’s free will, and in doing so you make karma. Furthermore,
your spouse will subconsciously sense that something is not right, and
this can have many subtle ramifications in terms of breaking down the
trust that is the basis for any successful relationship.
As I explain in my other answer,
a marriage has the potential to produce a high spiritual union between
husband and wife. Yet if you break the trust through an extramarital
affair and the introduction of “foreign” energies, you destroy
that potential. It simply isn't possible to have the ultimate union
with two partners, and therefore you are likely to have such union with
none of them.
It is wise to recognize that you live in a world where there is much
impure energy in the surroundings. You might envision that your energy
field is like a sphere of light that protects you from impure energies.
Yet if there is an opening in your field, the energies in your surroundings
can flow into the field. Many activities can open your energy field,
and one of them is having sex. It should be obvious that the meshing
of energy fields during sex can potentially open you to receiving outside
energies. The effect of this is in direct proportion to the attitude
and feelings you have while having sex.
It is virtually impossible to have sex outside of marriage without having
some - perhaps subconscious and unrecognized - impure feelings. You
know you are breaking your marriage vow, and this will open your energy
field to impure energies. This can be made worse if you have sex to
satisfy a purely physical desire or because you have negative feelings
toward your spouse and blame him or her for not meeting your needs.
The simple fact is that sex outside of marriage will always make you
vulnerable to impure energies. Virtually anyone realizes - at deeper
levels of the soul - that breaking your marriage vow is wrong. So to
break the vow, you have to silence your conscience, your Christ self,
and this neutralizes the protection that your Christ self normally gives
you.
Obviously, this makes you vulnerable to the manipulation of dark forces.
Such forces seek to steal your positive energy, and they seek to insert
negative energy into your energy field in order to manipulate you further.
It is a simple fact that most people would not break their marriage
vows unless they were being manipulated by dark forces.
As explained in my discourse on the levels
of the universe, dark forces especially work on people’s emotional
bodies. The emotions are very fluid, and therefore it is easy to manipulate
the emotional body. Obviously, there is a deep connection between the
emotional body and the desire for sex. I can assure you that the dark
forces on this planet use many means to artificially stimulate the desire
for sex. This is done openly and blatantly in many forms of advertising,
but also from many other sources. The idea is to manipulate people into
desiring sex and feeling that they never get enough sex. The dark forces
first seek to manipulate people's mental bodies with the belief that
they are entitled to have sex and that having sex has no negative consequences.
When people believe this, it is easy to direct sexual energies into
their emotional bodies and create an insatiable desire for sex.
As I explain throughout this website, most people have descended into
a lower state of consciousness in which everything seems relative. This
has given rise to a set of carnal desires that are different in nature
from the true desires of the soul. In other words, a soul can have a
legitimate desire to experience the activities of this world, including
sex. However, the desires of the soul are finite and can therefore be
satisfied fully. In other words, being married and having sex with one
spouse can fully satisfy the soul’s desire for sex.
Obviously, this is not what the dark forces want to see happen. They
don't want you to be satisfied in your marriage because that would prevent
them from manipulating you. So they want to induce into your emotional
body the carnal desires that can never be satisfied. These desires are
literally like a bottomless pit that can never be filled. You might
picture a carnal desire as a maelstrom in your emotionally body that
sucks everything into it. Yet no matter how much energy you put into
the maelstrom, it will never be filled. In other words, once you allow
such a carnal desire for sex to build up in your energy field, you will
never feel that your desire for sex is fully satisfied. No matter how
much sex you have, you will always feel you need more. Many people have
spent their lives and their life energy in a never-ending pursuit of
the ultimate sexual experience.
This, of course, is exactly what the dark forces want because they can
now continue to manipulate you and milk your energy. So what I am telling
you is that you are constantly being bombarded with stimuli designed
to create this maelstrom of sexual desires in your emotional body. You
have heard the saying that sex sells, and sex is being skillfully and
ruthlessly used by the advertising industry to sell various products.
However, behind that outer manifestation is the more subtle reality
of the dark forces using the insatiable desire for sex to manipulate
people.
It is this insatiable desire for sex, an artificial desire that is created
through manipulation, that makes many people feel like their sexual
needs are not being met by their marriage partners. This then gives
them a desire for sex outside of marriage. As I have tried to explain,
if you give in to this desire, you will open yourself to the manipulation
of dark forces, and they will simply keep milking you of your energies
until you either have nothing left or decide that enough is enough.
What is the best protection against this form of exploitation? It is
to make the firm decision that when you married your spouse, you made
a sacred vow to remain faithful to him or her. If your decision is firm,
it will be very difficult for dark forces to gain an inroad into your
consciousness. This will establish a ring of spiritual protection around
your marriage that will make it far more difficult for the dark forces
to manipulate you and your spouse. Obviously, this will greatly increase
the possibility of a happy marriage.
I am not saying that the decision to be faithful in itself would give
you a total protection from dark forces, but it is a very important
step in terms of establishing that protection. On top of that, you should
use various techniques for spiritual
protection, such as the ones given on this website. Mother
Mary's rosaries will also serve to protect your marriage. In the
world of today, it is wise to assume that every aspect of your life
is under attack by dark forces, including your marriage. Therefore,
it is extremely prudent to call for the protection of yourself and your
spouse and the sacred union of your marriage.
Obviously, having sex outside marriage will break any spiritual protection
you invoke. Therefore, I strongly encourage people to remain faithful
to their marriage vows. It would be unfortunate to destroy a marriage
because of an artificial, carnal desire for sex. Defend your right to
have a sacred relationship with your spouse without being attacked by
outside forces of temptation. Use spiritual means to avoid having your
life ruled by sexual desires, as I explained elsewhere.
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